women's 5 deepest needs

that's what today's sermon was about. let's see...

1. women need affection (not so much sex, but affection)
2. women need conversation (we need to talk!)
3. women need openess and honesty (i started falling asleep after this point...)
4. women need financial security
5. i have no idea what the last point was... i was asleep at that point...

i'm so terrible huh... sleeping in church... but i was really really tired... sigh. maybe my excuse can be that i was in church since 8am cos i was helping out in the children's service...

oh anyway, the above 5 points should be understood in the context of marriage or a relationship. same for the 5 basic needs of men.

hmmm... think #1 is quite true for most women... like sex is just the output of affection... maybe this is changing these days... women have sex just like men do... which don't think i could do... affection... like cuddling, hugs, kisses, someone telling you, you're beautiful, you're hot, you're sexy... that's important.

conversation is important... i think when women like spending time with someone, they want to share their lives. but then i think... sometimes when i'm tired, i don't really wanna talk... just wanna do some anti-social thing... like watch tv... haha

hmm i didn't really listen for the rest... i was ahem... sleeping. but then point 4 says my wife needs my financial security. i think this is true... it's social conditioning that leads us women to want someone to take care of us... i don't deny that... but i do want someone to take care of me... financially at least. damn... i bet feminists all over the world are cursing me right now. hah. but i don't care... it would be great to be a tai tai and take care of the house and children and have a guy to take care of the finances. BUT... bah. in this day and age of equality, rising costs, and all that... this is not gonna be very feasible... soooo... oh well we'll just have to deal with it. as long as the guy is prudent with his expenditure... i guess it's better than nothing... haha

haha... my own exposition on the sermon...

this is an interesting series... i wonder who thought it up...